When people drive down the street and look on street corners it has become more common to see a homeless man or woman standing there with a sign. What you don’t see is the under aged kids that are homeless as well.

What About The Homeless Youth

According to Covenant House, about 40% of homeless people are under the age of 18. Can you imagine your child or a child you know having to fend for themselves on the side of the street hoping someone will help them. I recently read an article in the local paper about a group of homeless youth living on the streets in Virginia Beach, Virginia. I have been a foster parent for over 17 years now and my mindset was that they were in shelters with families or foster care. But in all reality, they are out in the world waiting for that helping hand to help clothe, feed, and provide shelter. I found that there are organizations that help the youth up until the age of 21. I don’t yet understand the do’s and don’ts of helping the under-aged youth since there are so many laws. But I am working my way through them to better understand how I can help these troubled youth get back into a normal reality.

Now you may be asking yourselves how these kids end up on the streets fending for themselves. Covenant House shows that:

• 41% witnessed violence in their own home
• 36% witnessed their parents using drugs regularly
• 19% reported being beaten with an object
• 19% reported they have endured sexual abuse
• 15% reported someone close to them had been murdered

There is a local boy who lives near me who endures violence in his own home and runs as soon as it happens to get away from it. But with the laws today, he is not able to get very far from his parents. Local law enforcers have said that parents have more power of the child than people think. If they are picked up, then they have to go back into the parents’ custody. If they go to a safe house and are reported as a run-away, then that organization has to call the parents to let them know of their whereabouts. Then if they show up to pick up that child, the organization has to make the child leave.

No wonder there are so many homeless youth on the street—they would rather take their chances on the street than at home.

Your next question is: “How can we help?”

How can I help one of these kids if the laws have our hands tied so much it doesn’t matter if I put out that helping hand? In 2011, I planned a Formal Galla at the Hilton Garden Inn to raise money to purchase a home for these children through my non-profit organization, Advancing Youth of America. We will hire staff around-the-clock as well as involve volunteers to help educate these youth to:

• Receive their GED
• Write résumés
• Develop iIndependent living skills
• Search for jobs
• Manage money
• Do the other things needed in order to make it in today’s economy

Some people really do not have the time to devote to physically working with this cause, but they can be involved in many other areas such as fundraisers. Looking for other ways to get involved?

• A wonderful way of doing this is adopting the non-profit as your cause and host yard sales, pig pickins, spa days, and pancake breakfasts.
• Churches can get involved by having Sunday school classes competing to collect food, clothing and donations.
• Another way to get involved is to add us to your or your organization’s Web site.
• Schools could hold events and donate all money or items.
• Bands could hold a concert once a year.
• There is also a real need for pediatricians to volunteer their time once a week by coming in to check on the children.

There is not one person in this world who can’t get involved in one way or another. Are you someone who loves to network? Then there is a need for you as well. Let people know about this—get the word out. It is in your hands. If everyone could just see the need in pitching in and give $1.00, just think how that could help these kids! Let’s get together and perform a miracle for these kids. Won’t you find it in your heart to do something?

Advancing Youth Of America was developed two years ago in the hope of helping our at-risk youth have opportunity to advance in life the way every child deserves. As you know not much comes in the way of FREE, so we will do all we can to raise that money. The faster we are registered the better things will go for the children we are trying to serve.
Thank you for taking the time to read my blog. I hope in some way this touched your heart and it will be your desire to adopt this cause to help our homeless youth. Please add my Web site and my Facebook page to your bookmarks to give others a chance of knowledge and maybe help out these children.

“Homeless” Defined

What About The Homeless Youth

• Anyone who, due to a lack of housing, lives:
  • In emergency or transitional shelters
  • In motels, hotels, trailer parks, campgrounds, abandoned in hospitals, awaiting foster care placement
  • In cars, parks, public places, bus or train stations, abandoned buildings
  • Doubled up with relatives or friends
  • In these conditions and is a child or youth not in the physical custody of an adult (unaccompanied youth)
  • In these conditions and is a migratory child or youth

• To determine homelessness, consider the permanence and adequacy of the living situation.

• Unaccompanied youth:
  • A youth without fixed, regular, and adequate housing who are not in the physical custody of a parent or guardian.
  • This would include runaways living in homeless situations and those denied housing by their families (sometimes referred to throwaway children and youth).

When Lipstick Runs the Business

Many years ago a woman kissed her new husband, settled in life, had babies, cleaned house, and was very proper as a wife and a mother. Man, have things changed! Now, we run Corporate America, Lead top talk shows, Perform Brain Surgery, Work as prison guards, Run Hospitals, and kick butt in the board rooms all across America. Women from all walks of life dream a dream and are so determined they lead the way in find the possibilities to make it happen. We don’t tell our little girls to be nice, sweet little things, we tell them to go after their dreams. We are more out spoken in our views and even run for President of the United States of America.

Some women I have talked to shared in them it was because the men they have met were lazy, not responsible and lacked and ability to motivate life. Women are tired of depending on men to make whatever life possible and sit back and deal with it all. They want better to stand on their own two feet and work hard to have all the things they want in life. Hard work is a blessing to be able to show our children that anyone can be anything they want. Nothing is impossible if you put your mind to it.

There are grants, loans, work programs many ways to afford college. Determination, steadfast is what will get anyone what they want. You have to want it bad enough to work hard for it. Nothing will ever be handed to you without something in return.

Women, I tell you just like I tell my children, go to college even if it’s a local community college and transfer to a four year college, get your career, move into your own place alone and know you can do it. Don’t hop from Mom and Dad to Husband. All you are doing is going from one set of people helping to guide you to another person trying to get use to sharing life. It’s not easy.

If you know you can do it all by yourself then you can take time and make the right choices. I see so many girls jump at the first man (boy) who ask them to marry and then find out they did not really love them at all. Do you realize how many people are in this world? Think about this…If you lived in Italy all your life you would more than likely find a man there to marry, same is if you lived in Brazil, etc. So, travel meet many people and then decide. You have time. School, College, Career, and Your time to live first. Do what you want when you want to without someone else telling you what you can or can not do and when.

We live in America girls. Stop thinking small and think BIG. Make your dreams come true. It takes work and by all means the girls I have met STOP sitting back and feeling sorry for yourself for everything. Yesterday was yesterday it’s gone. Tomorrow is up for grabs, jump into full speed ahead and think, make and do.

If you have questions I work as Dear Bonnie and will answer questions. We have monthly meetings of idea exchanges. You have a question come join us and let’s chat…God Bless you all.